Friday, February 11, 2011

Where that lovin' feeling go?


This picture caught my eyes. I gazed over and my imagination painted an image of young teenage love. From the looks of the picture, the girl is heartbroken and no matter how hard she tries to get over that one "guy," she can't. Teenage love is filled with deceit and drama. No matter what happens, a person gets hurt whether it be the guy or the girl. I know what it feels like because I have friends who are in relationships and I have been hurt myself. That feeling destroys your heart. No matter the situation, you may be able to forgive, but you'll never forget.
Here is to all those who struggle with young love. We all have the right to fall in love. But how do we know if we fall in love with the right person? Well, we don't. We have to risk love. When you love somebody you open yourself up to suffering... that's the sad truth. Maybe they'll break your heart, maybe you'll break theirs, you never know. That's the risk you're willing to take if you determined they're the one for you.
To me love is the feeling that tells you, you are willing to spend your whole life with that certain person. After all the stupid mistakes you made, and all the flaws you have you notice none of it matters when you truly love someone.
Teens nowadays believe that once they love someone, they always will. Or if they get into a fight or argument, it's the end of the world. What they don't realize, it's just the beginning.
So now, what do you do when you have been heart broken by that one person? And all that anger builds and builds inside of you so much until tears of regret roll down your face? You're scared to give up because you think if you give up and let go, you'll become weak and desperate for that person again. Well let me tell you something; giving up doesn't show that you are weak, it just means you are strong enough to finally let go.
Now you're thinking if everyone gave up on their love lives, there wouldn't be love. Well just remember life without love is no life at all.
No one falls in love by choice, it's by chance. No one stays in love by chance, it is by work. And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice. So it's your choice. You decide. A lot of pressure? I think yes, but that's the point. If you don't take your chances, you'll ask yourself where did that lovin' feeling go?



4 comments:

  1. OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGG ... !!!!! YOUR SO RIGHT ... THATS ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS LET GO TO BECOME STRONGER.

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  2. I loooveeee this post! :) Good job, Djana!

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  3. I Can Definitley Relate. This Is Very True...
    ~ Amazing Job Djana! (:

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